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SEX AND FEELINGS

A man can have sex with a lady and still doesn't have any feelings for her. Most men only need space to have sex but the majority of women need reason to have sex.

90% of women can not have sex without feelings. A man can travel for eight hours just to have sex with a female and yet no love for her or even have any feelings for her.  

Sex makes men act as if they are in love while they are not!! What they feel is lust, what they feel is what they see, which is curves and a huge behind, go through a lady's silky skin thigh for 5 minutes or less, ejaculate and forget.

The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for, and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love, but they were all in the sacrifice for sex and nothing more.

The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is the art of true love. So many women are bought and blinded by materialistic things, yet miss the small little gestures that money can not buy. 

Sex is not an act of commitment; it's a sin when both parties aren't married to each other! So many men and women still leave their partners on their beds and start thinking of the next woman or man to sleep with. The satisfaction that comes from sex dies in minutes.

It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same goes for men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from the UK to the USA for sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex.

Sex drives men to do what seems like the impossible, and such turns women around, and they start acting weird. Sex and love are not on the same page, even in the dictionary.

People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for sex. Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life.

You may think they are working hard to live well in the future, but they are just living for fun, and that is all. Students are now living together like husbands and wives, and our society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become when they leave school?

This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation-building graduates.

Today, a 16-year-old girl is already into sex. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a prostitute in the sense that any man that comes her way for a relationship must show some signs of money, and she would respond to him.

The funny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become sex symbols end up in a deep mess. How many of them today are changing the world they are into? What kind of spirit would they do well within life? They have sold their souls out to sex. They pride on what they wear and the hotels they go to. That is their biggest achievement. The girls they called cowards are setting up economic empires. Their future is already exhausted when they come to their true senses?

Advice to my beloved brothers and sisters:

For men; never allow your erection today to destroy your future directions, stay positive.

My sisters, all that glitters is not gold, make your future bright, and it starts today.

I am not posting this to make anyone guilty or stand as a judge, but just stating nothing but the truth.

SEE THE DIFFERENCE!!!!

A woman has SE-X because she wants the man.

A man has se-x  because he wants se-x.

You see the difference?

Se-x is a physical thing to a man.

But for a woman, se-x is both physical and emotional.

A woman can have se-x because of love. But a man can have se-x because of se-x.

Before a woman can have se-x with you, she must have feelings for you. She must have that emotional attachment to you.

That EROS dimension of love will be there.

Hardly will you find a woman having se-x with a man she does not love. Except if she's a prostitute.

But for a man, reverse can be the case. A man may have no iota of love for you, and still have se-x with you.

This is why a man can hire a prostitute just to have se-x. He doesn't need to love the prostitute before he fulfils his sexual desire.

Now, understand this:

As a woman, a man can use you to feed his sexual desires. He can even give you money. He can take you out. All because he wants se-x, not you!

If you want to know if a man truly loves you, don't give him se-x. Sit back and watch. 

If he leaves you because you don't give him se-x, then he doesn't love you. He only loves se-x!

  Dear young adult girl!

As you're growing up and getting closer to the journey of marriage life..pls try to understand that you can choose a husband for yourself but your kids can't choose their own father,while choosing a father for them pls choose a father, a friend, a tutor, and a guidance for them...

And don't forget to be good mother  you can raise a hero and not a zero.

Wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made, so think deep, choose your prison mate carefully, and sentence yourself wisely to avoid prison break.

THE HEALTH PART

Many men pay hundreds of thousands to sleep with a lady raw without any protection and these ladies being blinded by the money fails to think about the health status of these men whether they're carrier of deadly diseases or not.

No matter how handsome or beautiful he/she is, you should never have unprotected sex with him/her until you know his/her health status.

Many young universities ladies today are suffering from H.I.V, Chlamydia, Hepatitis B, Gonorrhoea, Syphilis, vagina infections, etc simply because of a single sex they had with men without checking their health status. 

These "SUGAR DADDIES" are mostly carriers of different sicknesses, and they usually run behind university girls because once you show them money, they can do anything you want from them. These not only affect their education, but also their future and health.

Many young ladies you see today glittering like stars are actually CARRIERS, and once you have sex with them, you become infected.

Even if you use protection like condom, some diseases are still contracted through other body fluids like saliva during kissing or sweats through body rubbing.

The countless ab0rtions you d0 not only destr0y your life, it could also damage y0ur womb. Today, many pe0ple have challenges to get pregnant because of their past mistakes. 

Apart from all that, some men will use y0ur womb for rįtuaľs and will f00l you with money and cash not to think of that. You will only realise when you're married and unable to get pregnant. 

Sexually transmitted diseases are real. Do everything to avoid it. Avoid sex or kissing with anyone you don't know their health status. A one night stand with a guy or a lady in the club at night could actually be the beginning of your misery, as you may be infected. 

The world today is full of diseases, do your best  to avoid it. One of the ways these diseases get spread is through sex. Sex is sweet but could be more deadly.

#Becareful   #grace_on